Getting Molested at Side By Side

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by Becca on March 26, 2021

People might think that living at an Assisted Living at the age of twenty-four would be miserable, but I was living in one of the Independent Living apartments, and it was like having my very own apartment. It was a huge improvement on the nursing home I’d been in for the six months prior. I had made friends with a man named Jeff, who was so cute and attractive and I was completely in love with him (but too scared to say anything), and I’d also made friends with a man named John. I had Lesley, a really kind and caring private aide, taking care of me every day, I was finishing my last few projects for school and then I would be graduating summa cum laude with a GPA of 3.98 from Elms College with a BA in writing.

John and Jeff would come over to my house in … Find Out What Happens Next

Tagged as: being naive and missing alarming clues, being overpowered due to diability, being unable to fight back while getting molested, calling for help, Chronic illness, fighting against the molester, flashbacks to childhood abuse, gastroparesis, getting forced into sexual misconduct, getting molested, naive, POtS, set up appointment with PCP, Sick, Small Fiber Autonomic Polyneuropathy, spoonie, strip checkers, surprise early morning visitor, tubie, two new best friends, Visiting nurse, weakness, wheelchair bound

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Telling Fragile Secrets Post Acute Sex Trauma

by Becca on March 21, 2021

I hadn’t even been living on my own for a full week, and already, disaster had struck. About five days earlier I had been discharged from the nursing home that I not-so-lovingly referred to as Hell-Crest Commons where I had been held prisoner for six months, I had then moved into the Independent Living section of Side By Side Assisted Living in Pittsfield. While I had been loving, living at Side By Side, earlier that morning I’d been molested by a man that I thought I could trust. I’d been molested by a man that I thought was my friend.

Not knowing what to do, I had called the main building, and Marina, the overnight staff had picked up and was on her way over from the main building to my apartment to help me out.

I just sat there in my chair waiting for her.

My heart was still … Find Out What Happens Next

Tagged as: called for help from overnight staff at main building, called my mom about molestation, chronically ill, feeling defenseless and vulnerable, gastroparesis, GJ tube, global dysmotility, got molested, in acute post trauma phase, Port-a-cath, POtS, Private duty CNA brought me to main building to report molestation, reported molestation to CNA staff from assisted living, Sick, Small Fiber Autonomic Polyneuropathy, sore from physical grabbing of leg, spoonie, total digestive tract failure, tubie, vented to friend from Hillcrest Commons Nursing home, wheelchair bound

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Blaming the Victim in a Botched Crisis Intervention

by Becca on March 15, 2021

Sunday morning was hell. That morning I’d been molested by John a sixty-somethng year old man who I had thought was my friend and had invited into my life along with Jeff the man who I had an intense crush on and who I considered an extremely close friend,

That morning, Lesley, my private duty aide that came in to take care of me every morning and every night, came in earlier than the 10 O’Clock she was planning on coming in at anyways. She came in around 9:30 after my mom gave her an emergency phone call letting her know what had happened.

Marina, the overnight staff at the Assisted Living Side had been over to check on me and offered to wash me up, but I was terrified to get naked in front of anyone that hadn’t already seen me naked, after the events with John earlier that … Find Out What Happens Next

Tagged as: blow up with owner of assisted lining, can't stop crying, chronically ill, gastroparesis, global dysmotility, Owner of assisted living tore me apart about the molestation, post acute stress reaction, Private Duty Aide pulled me out of the situation, Private Duty Aide stuck up for me, reprimanded for having Side By Side CNA come over to my independent living apartment, sensory overload, Sick, small fiber autonomic polyneuropatny, total digestive tract failure, tubie, Vent to friend from Hell-crest reported molestation to my old social worker there, wheelchair bound

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