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Browsing: Starting a Relationship With Jeff

Melody to the Rescue: A Cradle Robbery

Melody, my PCA that replaced Jackie after Jackie went back to school for nursing, was a major blessing in my life.  She loved to style my hair just like Jackie had and take me out of the apartment for walks around the neighborhood just like Nan had (although she never stole any flowers off anyone’s lawns).  Melody made sure my hair got washed three times a week, and got me in the shower every single day, even though it meant going through the painstaking process of disconnecting and capping off running IV lines and spending twenty minutes covering up my accessed port in my chest so that it wouldn’t get wet at all.

She never complained about anything, but we did have lots of long serious talks where I told her about some of the crazy things I’d been through in the last 26 years I’d been alive.  Melody always … Find Out What Happens Next

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Kissing and Converting Jeff to Judaism

The evening after my first date with Jeff, he carried me into the house instead of Melody.  When he put me into my bed he leaned in kissing me on the lips. My heart began going a bazillion beats per minute.  I had never kissed anyone on the lips before, I didn’t know how it was supposed to be done.  The only people I ever remembered kissing before were my relatives and those were quick pecks on the cheeks.  Was I doing it wrong?

Jeff Kissing me on the lips when we got home
Jeff leaning in for the kiss

I had basically no time to react though. So I puckered up, and kissing back really quickly, I then leaned back immediately.  The kiss did feel right. However, I probably would have enjoyed it a lot more had I felt confident in my kissing abilities.  I made a mental note that I would have to ask Melody to give me … Find Out What Happens Next

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Why We Never Give Up Hope and Jewish Hazing Rituals

Matchmaker Melody

Jeff, the man I had met at Side by Side seven months ago, was going to convert to Judaism for me. I’d had a big crush on him from the moment I laid eyes on him. He had finally become my real boyfriend. This was thanks to a little help from Melody who was one of my new PCAs.

Melody was always having long chats with both of us separately. She had learned that we were both secretly head over heels in love with each other. Yet we were terrified to ask the other one out because of the fifteen-year age difference.  Finally, she had urged me to bite the bullet and go for it. When I finally did Jeff turned bright red and admitted he’d been waiting for this moment for over seven months. Now I just needed to convince my family that Jeff was the right … Find Out What Happens Next

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Sex: How to Lose Your Virginity at Age 26

Jeff’s Possible Death Sentence

I met Jeff at Side By Side Assisted Living and fell in love with him. After being best friends with him for 6 months we began dating. He decided to go so far as to convert to Judaism for me so that my family would accept him. At one point we thought he had a death sentence.

Jeff amd I lying in bed together at the hospital with him secretly touching me under the covers and making me want sex so bad exceot its a hospital and I'm an unmarried virgin

We had gone to his oncology appointment at UMass Memorial Medical Center with Dr. Swizzer. The doctor told him they had found a shadow on his liver. The shadow was possibly a recurrence of his liver cancer. They referred him to a more local GI doctor to take a better look at the scan. Dr. Xander’s job was to confirm whether or not it was cancer.

After Jeff’s oncology appointment he went to see his team coordinator for the liver transplant team. They explained that if Jeff had … Find Out What Happens Next

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